Posted: September 1st, 2023
5 tips on how to be a good college roommate
A healthy
relationship between you and your roommate is essential, it contributes to your
peace of mind. A messy relationship with your roommate cannot only affect your
mind but also lead to violence and hatred between you two. There are several
things you can do to ensure you get along well with your roommate.
Solve problems
Solve problems
whenever they crop up. Do not wait for the situation to worsen until you cannot
handle it on your own and you have to engage the school administration. For
instance, if one of you is careless and they leave the doors open, exposing
your room to thieves advise them to stop. In case you realize a problem when it
is already enormous. Solve it immediately to avoid more complications.
Outline your expectations
Take time
together and share what you expect from each other. Analyze every issue in
detail to ensure your roommate understands. Tell them the level of hygiene you
expect in the room and acceptable levels of noise. In case something pisses you
off don’t be afraid to express yourself. Also, listen to your roommate
carefully and abide by his rules and guidelines, don’t cross their line as that
might initiate problems.
Treat your roommate well
Treat your
roommate as you would like to be treated, respect them and take care of their
resources. Don’t use their staff without permission. Create a mutual
relationship with a high level of understanding and maturity. Respect your
differences too. Sometimes the school allocates you a roommate you have never
met. Both of you may be from different cultural backgrounds, respect that and
live harmoniously with them.
Don’t expect to be best friends
Unrealistic
expectations can lead to hurt. Do not expect your roommate to be your best
friend, instead maintain your social circle. If you two become best friends then well and
good but in case you don’t it is still okay. Remember your roommate might have
a different approach to life. You might even not share common interests and
passions.
Be mindful of people you allow to your room
Make sure
the people you bring to the room cannot harm you or your roommate. Mutually
agree about the best time to invite friends. In case you have a romantic partner
make sure you discuss with your roommate the best time they can visit to avoid
making your roommate uncomfortable.